Bill O'Reilly, Harvey Weinstein, Louis C.K., Charlie Rose, and now Matt Lauer (et alia). Wow...but not really. Why? Because, there are more women to come forward, more men to be accused, and more big names yet to fall. For any woman who has been sexually harassed, these downfalls must feel...

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When it comes to the "Friend Zone," there are two schools of thought. Viewpoint #1: The "Friend Zone" does not exist. Viewpoint #2 is this: If the Friend Zone does not exist, why am I standing on this ledge - wanting to jump off because my hot 'friend' just spilled her guts to me about her...

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A few years back, I was standing in the crowded bar of the Chicago W Hotel with some co-workers. It was happy hour after a long day at a trade show and many of the guys were ogling two pretty blondes at the bar, saying things like this: “They must be working girls…” or “God, the things I’d do...

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Would you be excited about trying a new restaurant that had a Yelp! review saying this?: Saw rats. Shrimp cocktail gave me diarrhea. What if a review for another restaurant mentioned that the food was "just okay" but mentioned another place down the street that was better? Would you still be...

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They say that when a new woman sees you with a puppy or a small child, it instantly makes you more attractive. Who knows if this is true or not, but one thing is certain. A new woman's impression of you is also affected by the company you keep - especially if one of your friends says this...

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More than a decade ago, I had a good female friend tell me this: You're a great guy but you dress like you just got off work at Home Depot. Yes, I was wearing outdated jeans, beat-up boots, and a shirt that looked like I bought it on sale at Farm and Fleet. Of course, I argued back to her...

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I’m proud to say that I’ve been in the Friend Zone before and things didn't end with me shoving my head into a gas oven. I even remember hearing these words that most guys long to hear from a beautiful woman: Why don’t you stay over tonight and I’ll make you breakfast in the morning?? Yes, I...

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Have you ever flipped through a copy of Motor Trend magazine and thought this?: Wow. Nice ride. Now, I just need to save up three year's salary and I can buy it. Shit. Or, have you ever checked out a copy of GQ, Esquire, or Details and felt bad about yourself afterward? How about Men's...

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Why does being in the Friend Zone suck so bad? Because, being in the Friend Zone might feel like you’re working your butt off at an unpaid internship at a great company and later realizing that they have no intention of ever hiring you.* It might feel like you’re dong the “work,” putting in...

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For most guys, the closest thing to a psychic nutshot is hearing a woman he likes say this: Look, you're a REALLY nice guy, but I just don't feel that way about you. In fact, if you have ever been rejected by a woman while still being called a "Nice Guy," these three things usually...

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