Why does being in the Friend Zone suck so bad? Because, being in the Friend Zone might feel like you’re working your butt off at an unpaid internship at a great company and later realizing that they have no intention of ever hiring you. It might feel like you’re doing the “work,” putting in...

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I’m proud to say that I’ve been in the Friend Zone before and things didn't end with me shoving my head into a gas oven. Way back in the day, I even remember hearing these words that most guys long to hear from a beautiful woman: "Why don’t you stay over tonight and I’ll make you breakfast...

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One piece of advice missing from a lot of dating books and blogs is this: Around women, looking like you just peed yourself is a pretty big turn-off. When I think of this advice, I think of a buddy I knew years ago. Let's call him Mike. So, some time ago, I was out in a high-end city...

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When it comes to the "Friend Zone," there are two schools of thought. Viewpoint #1 (usually held by females): "The "Friend Zone" does not exist! There are people you're attracted to and those you're not - and some of them are friends. Nobody 'puts' anybody into a 'zone' of any...

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A few years after college, I met a guy named Chris who always had very attractive female “friends” (as he called them). Of course, the way some of these girls hung on him, I could always tell there was something more going on. Chris never seemed shy or nervous around any woman - even though...

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More than two decades ago, I had a female friend tell me this: "You're a great guy but you dress like you just got off work at Home Depot." Yes, I was wearing outdated jeans, beat-up boots, and a poor-fitting shirt that looked like I bought it on clearance at Farm and Fleet. Of course, I...

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Bill O'Reilly, Harvey Weinstein, Charlie Rose, Matt Lauer (et alia). These are just a few big names accused of sexual harassment, but the list won't end here. Why? Because, there are more women to come forward, more men to be accused, and more big names yet to come up. For any woman who...

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For most guys, the closest thing to a spiritual nutshot is hearing a woman he really likes say this: "Look, you're a REALLY nice guy, but I just don't feel that way about you. Can we still be friends??" In fact, if you have ever been rejected by a woman while still being called a "Nice Guy,"...

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If you happen to be driving your fancy, new sportscar around town, one thing is certain: Other guys will stare at it and many will secretly want it for themselves. The same dynamic generally applies when you are talking to or dating an attractive woman. You can’t prevent other guys from...

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Want some dating advice that might make you want to Rocky-Balboa a brick wall when you hear it? Here it is: "Just be yourself." Sure that's good advice in principle...just like "buy low and sell high" is good advice for increasing returns on your portfolio. Buy low, sell high...Just be...

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