3. The Power of Bold Action


Boldness is Key


You can choose to not worry so much about what other people think.

So, when it comes to taking new actions to make yourself more confident and attractive to women, don’t worry if you feel nervous at first.

Yes, you might feel uncomfortable at first, but be aware that every exercise in this program is designed to help you overcome this feeling.

Feeling nervous is not a choice, but feeling ridiculous when trying something new is something that can be faced head-on and conquered.

You can choose to not worry so much about what other people think.

You can choose to focus more on the idea that you will be judged very harshly by others when you feel silly and stupid (and it shows).

You can choose to focus on the idea that you will be liked and admired by others when you simply have fun – while not worrying if anyone likes or admires you!

Most importantly, you can internalize this philosophy:

Sometimes, giving a grand total of zero f*cks and taking BOLD action is all you need to get the girl.



The Boldness Breakthrough


You can start out as ordinary and become extraordinary with this one key ingredient: Boldness.

In most movies that a have a wimpy, lead male character, there is always a defining moment where that character steps up, does something bold, and wins the glory and the girl.

This is an example of a "boldness breakthrough" - where bold action helps an otherwise ordinary person become great and look extraordinary.

It's just like when you first see that "Plain Jane" girl at the bar...but you don't think much about her because you're staring at the two or three hot chicks your buddies are ogling.

So there you are, not even paying attention to the "Plain Jane" - even as her group of friends moves closer to where you are.


Then, the "Plain Jane" just randomly starts talking to you and it turns out that she's funny, smart, and super cool.

As the drinks flow and everyone loosens up, she becomes more touchy-feely and flirty with you.

That's when you notice how great her smile is and how her face is actually really pretty and she's really not a "Plain Jane" at all; she's actually a little hottie.

When she starts dancing to her favorite song near you and smiling the whole time - while looking you in the eye - that's when you notice how sexy her body is...how good she smells...and how hot she really is.

So, you're seeing her for her bold side, and now she stands out to you as better...sexier...WAY sexier, actually.

Suddenly, you want her...and the other women in the bar just kinda fade away into the background.

That's a common boldness breakthrough example and that exact same process can happen for YOU around new women.

You can start out as ordinary and become extraordinary with this one key ingredient:


Boldness.



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